Common BDSM TermsWisdom - Okay, this is not strictly a BDSM term, and it’s out of alphabetical order. It’s here, becauseit’s the most important thing you need to know about the world of BDSM . Wisdom is knowing what issafe and what is not. Wisdom, is admitting you don’t know how to safely do an activity and making surethat you learn the pleasures and risks before you try. Wisdom is knowing who is safe and who is not.Whatever you choose from this menu of activities, consider your emotional and physical limitations andthose of your partner. Which leads us to. . .Consent - As a noun = permission, approval, agreement or compliance. As a verb = to permit, approvecomply or yield. Doing anything to another person requires their consent, including taking away theirconsent. (See Power Exchange and Negotiation)It should be noted that no list, no matter how exhaustive, is ever all inclusive or complete. Language andkink activities are often changing within the kink/BDSM world. We encourage everyo...