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I want to teach everyone around me to disrespect you. when you continue to use the incorrect pronouns, you are teaching everyone around you ... 2 pages
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10 Things You’re Actually Saying When You Ignore Someone’s Gender PronounsOctober 31, 2014 by Sam Dylan Finch, http://everydayfeminism.com/2014/10/ignore-gender-pronouns/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=SocialWarfare1. I know you better than you know yourself.When you make the decision to not respect someone’s pronouns, what you are ultimately saying is thattheir personal truth is something you are more knowledgeable about than them. You’re saying, “Howcould you possibly know your gender? Only I could know that, and you’re wrong.” The reality is,someone’s gender identity — how they relate to their bodies and to the notions of femininity andmasculinity — is only for that person to discover and declare. You are not living their life, and therefore,could not possibly know their gender better than they could. When you use the incorrect pronouns,though, you are saying that you are intimately more familiar with who they are than they are. And logicallyspeaking, that doesn’...